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HARLING HISTORY (+plus an update from Feb 2021!)

Hey!! Sorry we've been so absent on here!  We don't have too much to update (and really haven't had a lot of new news in the past few months) so we've just been keeping touch with our newsletters. I realize, though, maybe some of you don't receive our newsletters so wanted to put a quick summary of what's happened in the past few years!

2015 - I (Jenn) graduated residency and started my first post-residency job at Kids' Care in Anderson, SC. Michael still had 2 more years to complete his residency.  We also added Amelia to our family :) 

2016 - Michael and I started seriously talking about where we thought we felt God was calling us since we knew we felt called to some sort of long term missionary work.  Michael always felt called to PAACS, so we started looking at programs.  The PAACS program in Cameroon seemed like a great option for us (and our growing family) so we decided to take a vision trip the last year that Michael was in residency.  During that trip, we felt like God confirmed our calling there and when we came back we started moving forward.

2017 - We completed our pre-field training (multiple training programs with our sending agency - SIM) as well as a two-week cross cultural training program.  We also started our support raising process.   Michael graduated from residency in June and we still had a few more trainings to complete.  Our initial plan was to move to Cameroon in April 2018.  We started preparing big things such as what we were going to do with our house, our cars, and our stuff.  We gave away/sold/donated everything we didn't want to or couldn't take to Africa.  

2018 - The weekend before the movers (the movers who were going to pack our shipping container to move to Africa) came, we received an email stating that the violence in Cameroon was to the point where our leaders believed it would not be safe for us to come at that time.  So in April we canceled the move and flights that were supposed to occur in the next two months and started thinking about other options.  We still felt a call to Cameroon at that point and were not sure how things would play out there (i.e. could things get better after the elections in October 2018?) so we decided to go to language school to learn French for a few reasons. 1. French would be beneficial (but not mandatory) in Cameroon as many of the patients speak French.  2. If for some reason the door was closed for us to go to Cameroon, having French in our tool belt opens up more opportunities in Africa where we feel called. 

Today, May 14, 2018 - Over the past 4-5 months we have been discussing/praying about/seeking counsel about what our next steps will be. We've been in France for 8.5 months and have 1.5 months left here in Paris.   The PAACS program in Cameroon was officially temporarily suspended in February and so we knew at that time we needed to make some decisions.  It was a very long process of truly asking God where He wanted us to go.  At the end of the day, we feel as if God is leading us to Burundi.  As of this moment we plan to visit Burundi for a few months after language school, return to the States in September to deliver baby #3 (due early October!), and then return to Africa.   As stated in our most recent newsletter, many details have to be worked out for us to go to Burundi long-term and it's still not set in stone, but that is our current trajectory!  We are holding loosely to all of these "plans" as we know they can all change at a moments notice! 

Et pour les personnes qui parlent le français,  bonne soirée a tous!  Aussi, je me demande combien de personnes vont chercher cette phrase dans google translate.... ;)

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UPDATE: 

Well, those few months went well in Burundi so we returned to the good ol' US of A to deliver Mark. Good thing... the birth was a doozie. But everyone went home in good health!  We spent time with friends and family from Sept 2019-Jan 2020 and scooched right back into Burundi before the world exploded.  We've been nestled in the hills of this beautiful country ever since.  We plan to take our first "home assignment" or "furlough" in Jan 2022. 



Merry Christmas!!!

Bonsoir!  Nous esperons que vous aves passé de joyeuses fêtes!

Voilà quelques photos du mois de décembre!

Don't forget to go here to read our most recent newsletter!  There is a lot more about our actual school in the newsletter, so I didn't put much of that here in the blog because I didn't want to bore those who actually read both! :)

We have learned so much already -- yes, a lot of French, but also that God can teach us so much in the waiting. I feel like I've talked to and know a lot of people who are in a period of waiting in their lives.  A lot of times I just want to rush through the waiting, but God has taught me so much about His character during this time and I am so thankful for that.

Anyway... here are some pics of our life outside school from December in Massy!

We went to a Christmas market in Massy and there was a free carrousel!! We may have ridden it 4 times.


Amelia is in preschool around the corner from our home. It's all in French!! She's doing an amazing job.  There is a little boy who is in Amelia's class whose mom is Canadian and dad is French.  They invited us over for a Christmas get-together and we had foie gras for the first time!  The picture below is Vince (the dad) showing Michael how to make foie gras!


One thing I'm having to get used to is doing dishes multiple times a day since we don't have a dish washer. I can't complain too much though because the view out of our kitchen window is spectacular (especially in the fall!!)


The girls enjoyed getting Christmas presents throughout the month!  Started with Jimi and Papa (Vivian's parents!) and Vivian,  then they got to open presents from Meena and Pa (Michael's parents) and Uncle Jonathan, Aunt Hillary, and Hannah a few days before Christmas!

A few pictures of us just hanging out at home. 
This one is of Amelia checking StarBright's ears.


  Our friends, the Eison's, came to visit us in Massy!!! Loved seeing friends from Greenville! Thanks for stopping by! Sorry we didn't get a picture all together!


 My (Jenn's) parents came to visit for Christmas. We stayed with them in an Airbnb in the middle of Paris for the week of Christmas which was so fun!









 Michael and I were able to slip out for a date night one of the nights my family was here!



Since there are about 8 hours of daylight these days and it's usually cold and wet, we find other things to do inside! One of my awesome friends here, Courtney, found this place one town over. It's called Playmobil land! Kids can come in and play at tables with all the figurines for only 3 euros! Well spent money in my opinion, ESPECIALLY because we don't have to clean up the toys at the end!!


The girls enjoying some of their Christmas presents! (Thanks Gigi and Papa for the peg boards and thanks Meena and Pa for the floor mat!)

A tout à l'heur!!